The money “talk!” Wedding Budget: How to stick to it? Pretty tricky isn’t it? From wedding budget templates, wedding budget breakdown to an actual wedding budget planner, it is a lot to process! I mean what does an average wedding budget even look like? Are you planning a cheap wedding? Or a budget-friendly one?
We want to say “it’s ok!” But no, it’s not always ok. These things and money talks get overwhelming, and sticking to it? That’s a whole other story. Budgeting for a wedding ain’t no joke! This is why we’re sharing this on how to stick to your wedding budget!
- Consider both ways
- Research more
- Stick with a single method of payment
- Know when and where the money is coming
- Add padding
- Always have a back-up option
- Prioritize, prioritize, and prioritize
- Let it go
- Track your expenses
- Prefer a monetary gift
- Be fair to yourself
- Ask a consultant/designer
The wedding budget is a tough task to manage. Even if you think you have created the best budget and you’ll easily manage to stay within your budget, some miscellaneous expenditures and surprise costs always occur and somehow add up quite quickly!
It often makes you feel overwhelmed and stressed, which is more prevalent when you are a planner, and you wanted so badly to stick to your budget. Here are some awesome hacks that you can surely be back on track to maintain your wedding budget!
1. Consider both ways
When we say consider both ways, you can set a budget FIRST and then do your research and vendor searching. OR you can also reverse engineer and do your research/vendor searching first and then set your budget to cater to your priorities.
Reverse engineering, where you book your “dream” vendors first and come up with the money to pay the outstanding balance, might help you, especially if you are planning to have a long engagement.
Vendors usually require 30-50% initial payment to book their services; the rest of the balance is usually due on the wedding day. In some cases, like a photographer, it can be a 40-40-20, where you pay the 40% when you book, 40% before your wedding day, and the last installment of 20% once the photos are completed.
Coming up with the rest of the balance can be something you can plan or “work” for before your wedding.
This is why we say consider both ways because you won’t always need to come up with all the funds right off the bat. You might have time to come up with it and find ways to work around it.
Break down your steps, see what works for you best, and see how the money will flow better. Remember, the money flow is also important; when and how much is going in and out.
2. Research more
Don’t rush and start making a budget without researching the current rates of vendors, wedding planners, venues, etc. The charges can and will vary. Comparing how much your friend has spent on a certain vendor does not necessarily mean that you will be spending the same amount on your wedding as well.
In addition, research hacks and creative ways to get around your plans and vision at better pricing.
Consider speaking to a wedding consultant/designer to help you develop a better design or approach that will yield a very similar vision but in a more budget-conscious way.
3. Stick with a single method of payment
Another tip on sticking to your wedding budget using a single payment method will help you see all the expenses and track them. If you choose a credit card, you can see how and plan for how much interest will be added on, on top of your expenses.
If you are using a credit card, ensure to add on the interest in your wedding budget, as this interest will quickly accrue, especially if you are planning your wedding for 1-1.5 years.
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4. Know when and where the money is coming
This is essential as you need to know the status of the funds. Do you have it all right now? Are you setting it aside as you go?
Knowing the answer to these questions will help you establish a timeline for booking your vendors (if you are setting money aside as you go!). This will also help you not use any other payment method such as a credit card (unless that is your choice of payment!), as that will quickly accrue interest and be added on as an expense.
5. Add padding
Leave 5-10% of your wedding budget to “extra” or “padding,” which you can consider as a source of funds to unexpected circumstances. If there are no unexpected circumstances, then you can keep it back as a saving! Win-win!
6. Always have a back-up option
Leave some room in your budget for unexpected things.
So if, for example, if your original meal budget per person is $150, only aim to book 80-90% of that. Meaning around $120-135 will be your goal booking.
Suppose you are working with a caterer or a venue; check your options for both pricing. Similar menus, but of course, the more expensive one has more stuff in it. Book the $120-$135 price range. This means you have booked your venue/caterer.
That extra 10-20% is such good padding for you to spend if something unexpected arises.
Now towards the end, closer to your wedding, if everything is good and nothing unexpected came along, you have a choice if you’d like to upgrade the menu to $150 per person or if you want to save the money.
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7. Prioritize, prioritize, and prioritize
Make a checklist to prioritize and cut down the expense from the things that are not important to do. Secure your priorities first; photographer, wedding dress, etc., and then this way, you can play around with what’s left on your to-do list.
If you would like to DIY some aspects of your wedding, don’t always assume that you are “saving” money or this will be able to help you stick to your wedding budget, because more often than not, the trial and practice part of a DIY wedding need a lot of resources and time, and that might throw you off-budget.
8. Let it go
Once you have secured/booked something and decided on it, let it go. What happens sometimes research still goes on after something has already been secured/booked.
That usually confuses, and it ended up buying or going for something “better” than what you think you’ve initially found, which is why it is important to let it go and file it away once it has been booked.
9. Track your expenses
Maintain a sheet to be on track. There are wedding websites that will help you track your expenses and see where you are at. It is one of the most important things you can do to stay within your budget. Make a column of the expected cost, actual cost, and the advance payment for every purchase.
10. Prefer a monetary gift
This is a touchy subject but also something that you would want to consider. Guests understand that wedding is a significant celebration, and there is either a registry or a monetary gift involved. Instead of doing a registry, you can stick to a monetary gift to help you recover some funds.
This is not to say that you are recovering funds through your guests, which is not the wedding’s whole premise. It is still a celebration, but the reality is that your guests will come bearing gifts – regardless of whether you choose to do a registry or a monetary.
Choose which works for your situation best. If you just bought a house and would love help furnishing it, a registry is great for you! But if cash is king (usually is!), monetary gifts are the way to go!
11. Be fair to yourself
Know that there will be unknowns in your wedding planning journey.
This might mean you will have to compromise on some things and that you might spend a little more than expected. But be fair to yourself; things are called unforeseen circumstances before they are “unforeseen.”
If you have initially added the 5-10% padding on your wedding budget, that will help you manage these “unforeseen” circumstances better.
Once you have clearly established your priorities, it will be easier to compromise on all the other things.
12. Ask a consultant/designer
You might be considered letting go of a planner to save some money, but if you want to have a champagne-dreams-on-a-beer-budget wedding, then speak to a consultant and work with a coordinator is your best bet.
A wedding planner and consultant have a wide vendor network; they can help you save your expenditures. The most important thing to mention is that the creative input that a consultant/designer can provide will help you develop a more budget-friendly approach to achieve your dream wedding – helping you stick to your wedding budget.
There you are! Wedding Budget: How To Stick To It!